12 inevitabilities of planning a trip by group message

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For me, planning a trip is one of the hardest parts of traveling. Maybe because my friends are as indecisive as I am. I’m also a control freak, so I force myself to stand back and hope that everything just works out OK. Combine that with the fast-paced racecourse that is a group chat and it’s like trying to milk a jellyfish – likely impossible, foolish for trying. Let me hit you with a few truth bombs about what happens when you try to plan a trip by group text.

1. It’ll be one person’s first time traveling and they’ll be way, way too eager.

2. In the end, you’ll need a vacation from planning the vacation – before you even go on vacation.

3. People get so excited that they just send selfies, GIFs, links and a host of other useless, irrelevant mind clutter. It fills your phone so quickly that in the end you just want to leave. So badly. But you can’t. Because let’s be honest, pre-trip excitement takes over.

4. You’re desperate to pull the trigger on booking the hotel. All you need is everyone to say yes. And you know they’ve seen the messages because they’ve got their read receipt turned on! I CAN SEE YOU IGNORING ME!!

5. It will quickly become apparent that the name of the group chat is more important than trivial things, like, you know… accommodations, flights, who’s going, etc.

6. At some point – usually towards the end – one person who has contributed precisely nothing up until this point pipes in and wants to suggest “one small change”…

7. …”Do we really have to go that week?”

8. Trying to get five people to agree on one place to stay is like juggling whiny, annoying, spoiled cats. But in the end, you’ll compromise because you are going on vacation with your BFFs and you know you’ll have the time of your life.

9. There are leaders and there are followers. And then there are people that just say “LOL” when somebody asks a serious question in need of an actual response. Say something constructive, people! Do we need transport from the airport or not?!

10. You miss a single hour of the conversation and you may as well forget about ever catching up.

11. And once you’ve finally booked it… oh, the relief. EEEEK, vacation!!!

12. And so commences the photo-dumping of your destination to make everyone forget about the stress of planning and focus on the important part: the vacation.

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12 inevitabilities of planning a trip by group message was last modified: June 26th, 2019 by Martin Fleming
Author: Martin Fleming (5 posts)

I’m an Australian writer who left his country after the cost of beer hit double figures. I’ve spent the last six months travelling the world and was most recently tricked into hiking the Inca Trail in Reeboks. I blame Tinder glitches for my loneliness. I like sharks.